 Posted 11/1/2007 5:32:30 PM
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| I have been married to the same man for 18 years. He is now 48 and I found out he has been cheating on me. He says our goals are different and that he now wants his freedom to take chances in life, have adventures and lust other women. The woman in question is 37 and single. I am 54. This was a complete shock to me. He works in Mexico and we live in Canada. Up until he came home and I found the gmail he claimed to love me and we were going ahead as a team. He now says he has changed and wants to go on a different highway alone, leaving me and our son age 15 behind. He says that his son has to face adversity in his life and has no regrets for what he has chosen to do. THis may be male middle age but why do some men choose the power of younger conquests over their families when you believed that you had it all as a couple? I struggle with this a belong to a group for support. It was just such a shock. If there are any Dad's out there that can help me with knowledge or insight please let me know what is going on here?
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Posted 12/6/2007 9:24:13 AM
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I am not a man, I am a married woman, well common in law in the eyes of society, but married in the eyes of God, rely on prayer, I have been through the cheating thing once, it hurts, however I forgave him the ONE time, after that then no way. That is my Christian faith, to forgive the one time for that particular discretion, however in my faith, divorce is allowed when it comes to adultery.
If I was you I would let your husband know that he is breaking one of the ten commandments of God, and should mature and realize he has a good thing, also let him know that some of the angels that fell from grace, that is what they did, they left God to lust after women, if you read Genesis it calls them Sons of God, that is who they were, you could also read revelations 12, which tells you what happened too. Because of that choice to rebel, they produced what you would call Giants, the tallest man and woman in the world, that is offspring of such a union.
Let him know these things, and that adultery if not confessed and changed, gets left here, and does not go upstairs, that might do it.
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